How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What I need from you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

For an unpublished short story writer, what magazines or online publications offer the best chance of being recognized?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

If women see themselves as free, dignified, human beings just as good as men, can Trump hang it up and just lose in a landslide at last? How can men who like and respect women help improve womens' self-esteem?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why am I more attracted to black men?

Does not procrastinate.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What are LGBT+ people tired of hearing?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What is unattractive about a nice guy? Why do some women don’t choose nice guys?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What are some things you would change about Avatar: The Last Airbender if you were to redo the series?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Has anyone experienced an out of the body experience, as a child, years before you had ever heard the term or understood the implications?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

That's it for today.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why should you never do drugs? Will this story absolutely shock you?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ask yourself:

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Making more friends is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.